Quote Originally Posted by andibabe
Jae -

I'd suggest that you also use at least two different messenger programs; and keep one program and nickname for bdsm-related friends; and another for family/people you really know. That way, if you get someone that keeps pestering you (by making new nicknames and such), you just signup for a new name for the bdsm-related friends, and tell the ones you want to keep talking to your new nickname.
I did that, and now I can chat uninterrupted with my beta-readers! Thanks, i wonder why I didn't think about it before! Kiss kiss!