Quote Originally Posted by slavelucy
Actually, yes, i do. In my experience, some guys will continue to come on to you, long after it became inappropriate, whilst you continue to be submissive, they just take the piss, they're very thick skinned. Whilst i'm not sure shouting or losing your temper would help, i definately think being VERY firm and totally burying your submissive side is a good idea. Also, make any conversation as dull as possible, refuse to be drawn into anything relating to sex, BDSM, your erotic literature etc and ignore any compliments he gives to you...most guys will get very bored of that quite quickly. In fact, have you tried not speaking to him at all?
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It worked! Actually, I didn't sign on as me, I pretended to be my husband and told the guy off for harassing 'my wife'. I threatened to send his email box a message for his wife telling her of his intended infdelity. Since his wife is on the computer more, and he already told me that she opens all the email, that was a risk he didn't want to take, so he got really quiet, and i haven't heard a thing from him the last couple of days, even with my MSNIM on. Happy happy joy joy!
And hubby told me I can start looking around on the net for a Domme in our area who might be willing to have me submit! He told me no men, but another woman is okay. As long as he can watch. Hey, I'll take whatever I can get. Now I just have to find a Domme who doesn't mind a married Asian slut sub. Takers, anyone?