Flaming-Redhead
Anyway, some people just aren't into it and never will be, and no amount of encouragement can change that. It's time to have a heart to heart talk and then decide if you're willing to continue the relationship.
Thanks for that. I already know what I have to do, and yes we have had that heart to heart, but he is good at logic and can give all the reasons that I am wrong about this whole scenario. I think he has my best interests at heart and does sympathize. But in the end I will never be happy with settling, and I need to convey that message.
I guess that I am at an impasse and need to get control of it.

Am I being that selfish?