Valkyrie,

I empathize! My situation isn't as bad, but I still only get together with my sub about once per week. That's tough when I'm in class and thinking "how could I get her breasts, crotch, ankles, and wrists in one tie and how much rope would I need?"

We just talk on the phone a lot, and try to plan out the scene in advance so we can get right to the fun stuff when we're together. That way we're the good kind of tired the next day.

Peace