I like to consider myself as the “perfect on-liner”.
I can say that about me because that’s my only channel, till now (see the end for explanation), to the BDSM community and friends.
I agree that this “technique” give easy way to imposters but only for short time – as the say goes: ”you cant fool all the people all the time”. When it comes to chats - especially one on one – an “open eyes” person will realize sooner or later if his\ hers counterpart is true or phony.
One should not be afraid to make connections as long as he\she does it gradually and with regular self- tests to the truth ness of the connection.
Each one has his\her own paste and it’s strongly recommended to add extra time to your usual “time of making up my mind about someone”…
The second insight I learned from on-line connections (and it has to do with the previous one, too) – is that real honest connection leads quickly to pictures and web cam.
If that doesn’t happen – know that something (major or minor) is wrong!
Because of the imposters’ hazards in this technique - being cautious is an acceptable norm and that’s the way it should stay.


Due to my current personal status (married to a vanilla wife), my place of living (Jerusalem – city, and country, that
Everybody knows everybody…) and that I am still not in the stage of dramatical decisions.