Hell man,
You can spend years here listening to people "ADVISE" you. Do some reading...then get off your butt and get out there. Find a local club, join....go...regularly. Be yourself, be honest.....Have a good job .... SPEND some cash ..drive a nice car, use the brain God gave yah .....In short show people by your deeds that YOU are a Master!
In all Honesty ... there is not a Dom in all BDSM ... That was not in some way trained by His first true sub, His second, His third .....
In fact when you discuss limits .... guess what ..... you are being trained. When you read these posts ..... that is training.
BDSM in My mind is much more ... something that is natural ...Yet has been beat'n down by the Bull shit world W/we live in ..... Training is not really that at all ..... it's getting back to the nature of Man and His true roll as the total Master of His domain.
Do not be pushy and the sub you seek will find you.
DO NOT JUMP ON THE BONES OF THE FIRST GIRL THAT APPROACHES YAH
DO NOT JOIN THE FIRST GROUP OF PEOPLE THAT SEEK YOUR FRIENDSHIP .... WATCH THE MEMBERS OF THE CLUB ... IN A SHORT TIME YOU'LL FIND THE CLICK TO WITCH YOU BELONG...
In My Mind that is the nature of things.
Think about it![]()
I'm am not an authority on this subject ..... In fact, My thoughts may differ greatly from those that are more learned in the life style .... I have never allowed that to bother Me .... I seek what My life needs ..... I get what I seek.
TEXXX
GOREAN MASTER