Quote Originally Posted by wannabeXopsed
Being the hopeless romantic, I am still going to hold out for my story to unfold like FF, and TG's and have a happy ending.

If this seems long I apologize but I have often ask the same questions. And as you can see if any of it makes sense, I am passionate!

Thanks T
No need to apologize. That's why I posted this and am intrigued by the responses. And I am a firm believer that if you hold out for the dream it'll happen! FF and TG are a great example.

Pardon me for being blunt, but your post sounded like you have a little self esteem issue because of your weight. All I can say is "Let he (or she) who cannot look in the mirror and see room for improvement cast the first stone!" I don't think I've ever met a woman who was satisfied with her appearance. Probably men too, they are just less likely to admit it!

I've been a fan of "people watching" for a long time and it's in my nature to over-analyze everything. Thats probably what makes me good at my job. In 11 years of bartending on the side, I've found that we all have very different "types" that we find attractive. I like the skinny titless ones...the preverbial "sit 'n spin toy". But I know many who wouldn't give her a second look because she is too small. You just have to find the one who is right for you.

I've heard people say about the lottery..."You gotta play to win" The same holds true in relationships. If you don't look around, date and experiment...you can't find the right match!

Thanks for the reply! Good luck to you.