I loved the original topic of this thread. I have been a Dom a very long time, before the net finding subs was hard. You had to find someone that gave off a signal or maybe a smell of being submissive. Then came the hard part to test her to see if she really could be a sub. At first it was strictly in the bedroom that I was searching for but quickly my search became harder still because I want more control then just sex. Fewer and fewer possibles would pass the newer tests.

Testing was fun but today if she isn't atleast willing to try no matter how perfect she is or how much I feel for her I walk away. Since I want 24 7, careful with that term no one is all ways in total control, a vanilla will never be more then just a friend.

I am no longer interested in fuck buddies unless I am sharing them with her. morgan started with me having no real knowledge of the life, she had a small series of Tops that said they were Doms and yet could only do scenes with her and left her calling the shots. She is goregous and intelligent so topping from the bottom was easy for her. That alone took a lot of time and effort to show her how much more there is to my way of the life. I invested the time and now she wants a real 24 7 relationship with me.

I have rambled but with the choice presented I would continue to search to find (as I have) the one with wit, grace, love, and the submissiveness I have to have in a mate. Thank all the Gods and Goddess I have found her.

Russell