vistana
cariad<U_E> has given you 2 of the major reasons most stated by submissives that it makes them feel safe and secure, I also hear often from mine that as I secure her in whatever position I want that she feels free and calm. Today I can have her wear leather cuffs or metal shackles and she feels a calmness come over her.

Come on people help vistana with this and learn about yourself and others.

Russell