Quote Originally Posted by Pandora's Box
I would have preferred to keep my ideas out of this as to not taint the answers. But I see that apparently I have not provided enough of a question to be answered.

My ideas of a dominant pretty much match those in the article.

Specifically on the list is:

  • Time
  • Attention
  • Love
  • Cares about me
  • Listens to me/Hears me
  • Honesty/Trust
  • Ability to communicate
  • Ability to guide
  • Respect


What I am confused on is that I have yet to meet a dominant that is able to maintain that list over time. And no, not just the love part. The love, at least according to everything been told to me, is not the issue here.
The girl seeks that witch does not exist read all the articles you wish. Search the world over and you'll not find a M/man that fits the above all day every day...W/we are Human. I wager the girl is not all the above all day every day yet she looks for one that is.....come on hun....think about that.

What you need to do....is work hard to find one that truly tries....then do what YOU can to keep it that way. Realize that O/our lifestyle is intense and very demanding allow for breaks in that intensity. If not for yourself ....for the Pleasure of your Master.

This couples up with the post you made the other day ..." How much time does a Master give His girl" rrr somp'n like that.

If you wear His Ko-lar.....that in and of it's self states to A/all that you have His
  • Time
  • Attention
  • Love
  • Cares about me
  • Listens to me/Hears me
  • Honesty/Trust
  • Ability to communicate
  • Ability to guide
  • Respect

.....from time to time "space" is also requirement.

Ooooooooo and please do not forget that all the above is NOT a one way street. Part of your submission is to allow Him some flaws.....allow Him to hit a bump in the road....allow Him His Humanity. Do you not ask the same of Him..?

Maybe I'm crazzy....yah think..?

Texxx
Gorean Master