The girl seeks that witch does not exist read all the articles you wish. Search the world over and you'll not find a M/man that fits the above all day every day...W/we are Human. I wager the girl is not all the above all day every day yet she looks for one that is.....come on hun....think about that.
Texxx - isn't it surely the case that any 'ideal scenario' of a Ds relationship will always be a 'utopia' - that's what ideal means. i don't think Pandora or anyone else actually believes it would be like that all the time and that any human being wouldn't ever slip up and be less that perfect.

Ooooooooo and please do not forget that all the above is NOT a one way street.
No one said it WAS a one way street, and furthermore i don't think you need to tell most submissives that it isn't a one way street! But the question was about the responsibilities of dominants, hence the slant of the answers...you guys, your wants and desires can't be the centre of every single subject and thread all the time you know.

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