Tom, I don't feel that you are picking on me. You're just making the point that he should have been more careful, and I should have checked into things beforehand. TheDeSade, thanks for the encouragement, I will be honest with the doctor, you make some good points. Cariad, yes, I keep learning at a break-neck speed it seems - on this site.

My dom was so upset, he never wanted to do bondage again. He was traumatized and wouldn't even consider it when I got most of my feeling back and requested it again. He did it after much discussion and it went better, but I think getting the wrist/ankle straps would be the better choice.

~SUB17