Quote Originally Posted by MrWonderful View Post
Natalie, can't win, mentioned transexuals in an effort to be inclusive
I figured, which is why I mentioned it - if you like being inclusive, then knowing how best to be so is helpful, no? Anyway, I didn't mean to derail the thread...


For me, when I'm domming I like inflicting pain. Lots of it. Pain and the fear of more pain. Whereas when I'm subbing, I'm far too wussy to take anything like that. I much prefer humiliation and servitude. But if I'm domming, then humiliating someone is kinda tepid, and I don't even want to be served, it just makes me feel responsible.