Quote Originally Posted by cariad<U_E> View Post
What was much much harder from my point of view was when he wished to borrow my car keys. That was fine, but he took them off my keyring so they would not take up so much room in his pocket.

When I came to go out the following day, and could not find my keys for a while, and broke a finger nail trying to get them back onto my ring, and then was nearly late I felt far from submissive and really had to struggle not to say something pointed when he came home. In fact I was so upset about it - beyond the point of being rational, that I did not say anything for a couple of days until I could be objective. Then I told him the problems I had had and left it with him, to hopefully not do the same next time.

cariad
Cariad,
I have to say I _really_ appreciated reading about your struggle there. It kind of speaks to the "when you don't feel like being submissive" topic, but it was so specific, it was good to see other subs go through these emotions too.

And nk_8950, i'm glad you asked the question because it's something i've wondered about too, never having been a very long-term 24/7 relationship, and it brought out some really insightful, good stuff from others.