The Responsibilities of a Dominant/Master

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I would really like to hear what everyone thinks are the responsibilities of a dominant/master to his submissive. It's something that I think I may be confused on.

Any input would be appreciated.

Thank you.

But I'll be wrong every time you need help.....If indeed ...you get the help from SOMEONE as the result of My being WRONG. *S* I do not have to be "RIGHT", to feel "GOOD".

I would be more than happy to share with you how W/we got thru much the same times and you and your Master/Dom/BF/Lover are now going thru.

I'll be up front and tell yah that I do think that you neeed more time...much more time in fact.

That having been said ...... There was a time ( 5 years give or take) when My girl and I first got together where I was working QUITE OFTEN as many as 20 hours a day. I would come home supper was on the table. Once showered, I would eat....and go to bed. Wake up...and do it again. I frankly never gave it much though about my girl, (IN THAT REGUARD) honestly .... I HAD to do what I was driven to do.....Make a comfortable home for the girl I was responsible for and I might add totally in love with.....Did I actually think that thought.....nope.....It was just Me to do so.

How did she deal with it ....just like I did....You see, we both knew that there was light at the end of the tunnel and if in fact if there wasn't we would build a fire there when we got there ....We totally believed in that light. We did not believe that what we had was a 50/50 thing....it's 100% both ways. There was no turning back...that door was CLOSED.

Now I'll say that even with My schedule I found more time for her than you are now getting.....You are being abused, nothing short. In fact if I were in your shoes and if you are being totally honest ..... I would be certain that He was a clever Married guy.... and I was the "piece" on the side.

I agree that you should in no un-certain terms "LAY THE LAW DOWN". There is nothing in this old world that is more important than YOU. Without your self esteem and pride you are Nothing. Do not allow him to rob you of this all important person.

This world is full of people that do not wish to give 100% to a relationship and that is fine.....I have no problem with that ....none......But I ask them to go buy a blow up doll ....or get a bigger dildo...do whatever it takes to keep from hurting people that are willing to do WHATEVER IT TAKES ....to make the relationship work for both P/people.

Even in Gor.....the best Master's listen to their girls. Wanna piss a True Gorean Master off ..... just tell Him you, "had a feeling that was going to happen ... but i did not speak up."

Texxx
Gorean Master
" To increase the depth of a river you dame it up ..... To increase your depth of understanding ..... you let it flow." Hook Tooth Louie