To have control over someone half a world away is of course an ego builder. To be called Master is also an ego builder. However, I have never needed and ego builder. To have that level of trust, respect, love, or whatever else you want to call it that allows her to give me this control over her is what is most satisfying to me from a D/s point of view.

Because she willing gives me this control over her it also means that I strive to make her happy which ultimately is the most important aspect of my D/s relationship with Aussiegirl. For it to be right, I need her to be happy.