I'm a 20 year old girl and have next to no experience as i have never really been in a relationship where i feel i can experiment. I have had boyfriends in the past, who ended up being no more than friends because i felt as if i was being put in the dominant role which i really didn't enjoy. Sometimes i feel as if i'm just asking too much but on the other hand i don't want to ignore the submissive tendencies i feel i have. I can remember having submissive thoughts really quite young but i'm not sure if i can really call them fantasies. Is it actually possible to be aware of/enjoy the idea of bdsm at a young age?

Thanks x