Okay - I have to ask this - are single guys trying to get off not real people? *Looks worried, and wonders what they might be.*
...anyway - I am definitely not one of the them, and a warmto forums. When it comes to writing, the Writers' Block has lots of people who are amazing themselves with just what they can do - why not have a go. It is a 'closed' area of the forum, which only fellow novice authors can see, and is all very supportive and friendly.
Hoping you find what you seek and have fun whilst you are doing so,
cariad