This is the reason I started this thread. I thought I knew the guy I'd met, and made some very very poor choices. Safety first. ABOVE EVERYTHING ELSE.
Please crikey, Copy her this thread, show her how to sign up here and point it out, or pass along my email, (sheepish_jaina@yahoo.com) or any one of my messengers (linked in profile) and I will be MORE THAN WILLING to talk to her.
Edit **and if I'm logged into my alt chatroom account.. doh!