What you seem to be talking about is owning a slave that is mindless and at your whims but thats ok some so called doms can not handle a strong woman or a sub.I will point this out to you if a sub does not hand over her power to you where does that leave you? powerless? so who has the real power in a D/S relationship? So on that thought if she doesnt hand over the power and you take it what does that make you? A rapist? A fledgling serial killer in the making?