Rather then sounding off suggestions that make no sense, could you tell us a little more? its difficult to make suggestions on how to "spice things up" without a touch more background. The only general suggestion I would make is offer is suggest some reading material for him (I think their may be a couple stories in the libraryOriginally Posted by janey*sub*
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a scene routine sounds like maybe you both need to review what else is out there, not in the people sense, but if your looking for just sex BDSM, get a fetish list out and go over it. Ask if you can go on a "fantasy drive", this can be fun for both of you without a scene, take a long drive and just discuss type of scenes or things you enjoy or have read. the reason I say drive is for the isolation. No phones no computer no tv, no real distractions other then the road.
pardon me on this one but if my girl came up to me and said "I'm board with our scene's I wan you to come up with a new scenario" I or even close I would slap her in a heartbeat, excuse me but it is NOT the place of the submissive to tell the Dom to do something or the ever popular "I want" this isn't about the submissive wants. If submitting is all about what the submissive wants, then she/he isn't a submissive. She's a top that wants to be beaten or spanked or tied up or any number of fun kinky things, but she wants to control the scene have it play out her way, or have the scenario play out a particular way. their is nothing submissive about that and just cause your on the receiving end of a tool doesn't mean your the submissive in a scene.Originally Posted by MrJerseyGuy