Bored and looking for excitement

[Eraser]

Hmmm *thinks*. i'm not sure if you could have taken what MrJG said the wrong way, i don't think he meant he wanted his sub to demand certain scenes, but rather that he appreciated her contribution, and, as the dom, he surely has a right to be able to ask that!
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Thank you for editing my post, I didn't catch that I forgot to close the quote.

I've seen for to many "Sir you can beat me this way, this many times, with this tool, until I say stop" submissive's or where the focus of a scene is about them and there wants. On the flip side of the topic, I am a great proponent of conversation and discussion. Understanding your sub/slave is a critical part of every relationship. Masters spend month if not years teaching a slave their prefrances and taste's, but a Master must also understand his slaves prefances and taste's. Please note I said understand not adhere to. One recomendation I would make to anyone is to have a submissive keep a activity/training journal it helps to convey things that maybe difficult to express respectfully.

[mythicat]

I would propose that not every S&M, top & bottom, or even B&D relationship is a D/s relationship. Not everyone who's into the more physical aspects of "BDSM" are interested in the psychological side. Just like not all of us who love a good "mind fuck" are especially interested in pain play. S&M and power exchange aren't inherently inclusive concepts, no matter how often they might be practiced together.

Different strokes for different folks! (pun very much intended )