Quote Originally Posted by Tang
No, I don't think you are necessarily gay, though I think everyone is on a continuum, no-one is 100% anything (possibly a controversial statement, but I'll leave that for others to discuss).
My hubby used to consider himself homophobic. He didn't like gay people, avoided watching Queer Eye on TV, etc. One day i pointed out to him, "If you aren't gay, why do you watch straight sex pornos?"
He didn't understand.
"The pornos with men and women going at it. And you don't like seeing the guys with small ones, you want to see guys with 'big ones' going down on women.If you like watching that, and you actually pay attention to the guy's package, then you can't be a complete homophobe."
He tried to dismiss it as a 'guy thing' but I know he was thinking about it later. And he's been quiet on the subject of gays since.