How far do you go?

[precious]

extreme in what manner. Some people think toilet play is extreme, while others do not. Some thing cutting is extreme, while others do not. Some thing hanging by the neck is extreme.... ok, most everyone thinks this is extreme.

What I am getting at is why don't you specify in what way you are refering? It could be extreme mental play, it could be extreme physical play, it could be a combination of both.

*grinz*... i was asked the other day why i didn't see branding as extreme. For me... simply because the chance of it resulting in my direct death was not as great as with other activities...so it was not on my "extreme" list.

So Your right ID. Extreme is in the eye of the beholder....