Well, when I first read the headline, I thought of things that would be illegal in most places. I have, for example, raped my sub. By that, I do not mean just as play, she objected in the "safe word" manner, but I carried on and finished the intercourse anyway.

A non-dom/sub relationship could have ended there. We have never decided upon safe words, but trust that we can read each other. In this case, she settled for the truth that she had actually told me on numrous occasions before, that she would want me to rape her. When this was the case, why wouldn't I?