Psynymph, it is natural to want to test your limits as a sub, and a good Dom knows this and will train you with that in mind. It takes patience on both of your parts to make a relationship work, and you actually have to deal with cultural conditioning that makes you want to be totally equal with your Dom in all things. Your nature combats this, and makes your job confusing and difficult.

But take heart, with time you will outgroww the brattiness and move into total obedience.