Quote Originally Posted by pixie_dust View Post
*asking permission to give a sub's point of view*

Whenever Sir deems that I need a stern punishment (as one that he refers to as a "pain slut"), he gives me the silent treatment. Which means that he does not acknowledge my presence whatsoever for a set amount of time he has determined to fit the infraction. For me, personally, this is the absolute most difficult punishment to endure.

If your sub thrives on attention, this punishment will definately stay in the back of their mind for a very long time.
OK... adding my 2 cents as well...

This type of punishment has been discussed in another thread here previously. (I just can't find the thread! grrrrr) This is also a punishment that TDS and i have discussed as being effective on me, since i too am a pain slut.

I will add though, that depending on the person, this type of punishment could have a negative effect and not the positive that is being sought. i know that if that type of punishment ever happened, how it was shared, how it happened, what caused it, how long it lasted, etc. would all come into play on my reaction to it... If not done correctly it would trigger an anger response in me that would ultimately destroy the relationship.

So... while that may be effective for some... i personally feel it needs to be used with EXTREME caution!

Also, while searching for the above mentioned thread i ran across a few another which addresses this issue that i thought might be helpful. Here is the link:

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...?t=6222&page=2

Thanks!
precious!