Spreadeagled?
And I agree with you there.I find m,ost of the stuff on D/s on the ent is by people who have at most an outsider's view of the thing,and they have their prejudices to deal with there too.Having read a couple of psychiatriatist's treatises makes them think they know all there is to know about the lifestyle.I mostly ignore such writings though.I have no time for ignorance disguised as wisdom.