I've converted every serious or semi-serious lover I've had, I think. Only two were into BDSM to start with. The rest got so turned on my by reactions to pain that they wanted to learn more. It's like the BDSM version of gaydar or something.

I'm training my dom/fiance right now. The boy's a natural, and I love how submissive he makes me feel, but he'd never experimented much with kink until we got together. It took a while for me to be ready -- my last male dom was extremely abusive, so I've had some issues to overcome -- but now we're incredibly happy with the way things are going...