To find a trust you never knew existed and a love you only dreamed of.

To have a relationship from half a world away knowing you will never meet yet still knowing it couldn't be stronger if you could actually hold hands.

To gain a bit of insight into your real self that you may have kept hidden for years.

To find a compatibility you never imagined.

So why do it on line and not in real life?

First off even though on line it is still real life.

Maybe because it is the only way possible for some to achieve these feelings and keep their family life from falling apart.

Maybe it is a release of ones true nature that can't be shared with those closest to them for one reason or another.

Maybe because your closest companion, whether it be a spouse or significant other has no interest in BDSM activities and you justify in your mind that on line really isn't cheating (though many disagree.)

Maybe it gives your life a new and very happy reason for waking up in the morning.

Maybe, just maybe because you really love doing it on line because you truly the person you are doing it with.

Maybe you can see I really don't know what the reasons are but know I never want it to end. Is that reason enough?