smiles....it is like any relationship r/l or online some work some don't...and with commitment and interest and trust/respect on both sides o/l can be a wonderful way to explore for both sides, it can be a good way to test limits and if you are as lucky, patient, blessed as i it can transfer on to r/l, just this subs quiet 2 cents! smiles
with extra smiles after reading Warbaby's touching post above!!!