Quote Originally Posted by MMI View Post
You think her lack of interest might have played a part? Or maybe I was setting the wrong kind of tasks.

Of course I realise those poss... probabilities.

What the relationship lacked most of all was honesty on her part ... "yes, Master, I'll do it" (knowing she wouldn't) and trust on mine ... "Bet you didn't do it really".

I would add that I really wanted to believe her and gave her a lot of benefit of the doubt. In the end, I think she just thought it was too freaky.

Now, it seems to me that in real life, such a situation will occur less often and for different reasons than on line; and as there is no effective control a dom can have without absolute trust, isn't it true that the sub is, in fact in control?
I think you may have hit the problem on the head when you said there was a lack of honesty on her part. You have to have total honesty and the best communication possible because, as I said or at least tried to say, words are all you have since you can't reach out and hold your loved one.

If I couldn't trust Aussiegirl and she couldn't trust me, we would have nothing. If I ask her to do some task and she accepts it, I know 100% it will be done. There is not the slightest bit of doubt in my mind about her doing as I ask, none what-so-ever. She would never lie to me if she ever failed to accomplish the entire task. I could bet my life on her honesty. Maybe I am lucky she is so honest, hell I know I am lucky since finding her, but I trust her completely.