Smiles, hello Chris and thank you for posting an introduction to yourself. I am sure you will find this place oozing people can help. Do start off by looking for information in the Knowledge Base and My BDSM Life, I make use of the search feature to save time when I am after something. Also feel free to ask questions, either at the tail end of a thread, or start another one, just as you did for this one. Whatever you do, I hope you find what is right for you. Oh - and don't forget to have some fun whilst you are about it.
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