Doms: age, experience, maturity?

[Sir_Russell]

Well since I seemed to have started something her that was not my intention maybe I should expand on what I meant.

Bare with me as I ramble, please. First as a teen I freaked my friends and a lot of adults I proposed that there should be 3 marriages for each person. The first should be any old person say 45 or more to a young person, giving the older person a means to recapture youth and drive. Allowing the young person to learn from one with experience and knowledge to be treated tenderly, protected and loved. I felt that would be a far trade off and I guess I still do. The second would have been 30 to 30 to allow each the passion of like experiences also it is a time for children so that they are raised by people that have reached a sufficeint level of maturity to be up to that task. Third would be 65 and over to another 65 and older. That allows for that laid back time where physical drives are waning and the companiship of one with similar life experiences and values.

I am not trying to say that there is no place for you Doms I was a very young Dom at one time myself. My point was that todays youth culture has lost the value of experience dooming themselves to have to everything the hard way.

I am at a time in my life where a 20 year old is not what I desire anymore, sure for a brief period of time it would be good for both of us but I want someone that can understand my perspectives on life from going through at the same time. I have had young sub/slave recently and trying to explain flower power and the beatles

No matter what stage of life your in you should be learning about your way of life and yourself. If your young you must learn to control yourself first before ever considering controlling another. When you lack experience you really don't know what is happening next and the only way to over come that is to move safely. Play chess with the life, if I do this what is it that she can possible do. You need to have all the answers because the one you don't prepare for will eat your lunch and cause her either mental or physical pain that you never intended.

If it helps any young Doms the Dom has the hardest job in the life and the young sub may have the easiest.

Russell

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Bare with me as I ramble, please. First as a teen I freaked my friends and a lot of adults I proposed that there should be 3 marriages for each person. The first should be any old person say 45 or more to a young person, giving the older person a means to recapture youth and drive. Allowing the young person to learn from one with experience and knowledge to be treated tenderly, protected and loved. I felt that would be a far trade off and I guess I still do. The second would have been 30 to 30 to allow each the passion of like experiences also it is a time for children so that they are raised by people that have reached a sufficeint level of maturity to be up to that task. Third would be 65 and over to another 65 and older. That allows for that laid back time where physical drives are waning and the companiship of one with similar life experiences and values.
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An interesting idea! (I really think so, even though I, as a strictly monogamous guy do not agree with it.) However, I would have thought the third marriage would be with one much younger, as the other side of the first marriage. How else could the young people marry an older, experienced person?

I'd also say that many people in the second type of marriage naturally follow each other into the third kind of marriage.

[TomOfSweden]

I am not trying to say that there is no place for you Doms I was a very young Dom at one time myself. My point was that todays youth culture has lost the value of experience dooming themselves to have to everything the hard way.

I don't agree there is a youth culture. There's only a youth culture among young kids. Which only is a problem for an older person if they themselves would prefer to fuck young kids. So then they're so to speak, part of their own problem.

All older guys I know who fuck young girls have all truck loads of issues. I'm not sure they're the right men to educate our youth. There's a maturity issue.

And just to make it clear, I'm not talking about being a sexual mentor for somebody young. Which is a great thing, and something more should do....but that doesn't necesarily involve having sex with them.

I've always liked women on my own level of maturity, (which ever age it may be) which means that they're most likely to be my own age.