BBW Fetish

[strangeguy]

Your initial sentence said you are attracted to BBW, but your posts seem to indicate more revulsion than attraction.

I am attracted to BBWs. However, I do have an appreciation for certain words, that I personally just find objective but other people might find clinical or repulsive.

I do prefer to say 'obese female' rather than BBW because IMHO, BBW is a kind of euphemism and I do not like euphemisms. If you think about it, Big Beautiful Woman, if you take it word by word, that could mean somebody who is just tall or muscular. Obese is a kind of scientific term, and as an engineer I prefer to use those

I do remember that during the 1990s, there were some feminist author (IIRC, her ideas were otherwise quite worthless) that tried to introduce the acronym BOW (Beautiful Obese Woman) but for some some reason it never caught on

I think that BOW would suit my style better than BBW. Sometimes, I do use BBW, just to not create confusion and mixed messages.

Do you in fact get turned on by and appreciate BBW while you use the discussion to objectify and humiliate?

I think that I do enjoy to objectify a BBW. I have to admit that I am guilty as charged on that

Strange that it might sound but it's not really my goal to humiliate, or if it is my goal, then it's something that I have a hard time admitting to even myself. I am just a guy who is really fascinated and curious about female obesity and all sorts of taboos that surround it. I cannot easily explain it but I am really curious about those questions that I listed. Also, if a woman tells me about those, it gives me a feeling that I know something top-secret and I am somehow more connected to the woman in question.

If I happen to see an attractive super sized woman on the street and she has such a shape that it seems likely that she would have trouble reaching all her body parts, then I cannot help myself from fantasizing about what she is doing to take care of certain practical stuff. Of course, I cannot ask her about it.

I believe that this is similar to a vanilla guy who sees a big breasted lady on the street. He might fantasize about what her breasts look like naked but of course he cannot go the woman and say "Hi sweetie, I am curious about your tits, can you show them for me right here and now".

Or do you find their obesity repellent but and good excuse to verbally abuse and humiliate?

No, I find the obesity to be attractive and really fascinating but how do you ask somebody 101 questions about her obesity without introducing some degree of humiliation and/or dominance?

To be honest, I think I am quite obsessed with female obesity. I think that normally, BBWs tend to be a bit repulsed by somebody being obsessed by that. I guess that big breasted women in a similar way can be troubled by a guy being obsessed with her breasts but I think it's even a bigger problem with obesity because there are all this shame that is connected to it.

If the later, do you use your verbal abuse and humiliation and objectification to encourage BBW to lose weight?

No. I believe that the decision to try to lose weight is a very personal one. Since, I prefer BBWs, I would of course for selfish reasons prefer that she stays pretty fat. However, I don't think that I would like to pressure anybody into any particular decision regarding her body weight. I think I would not do much more than that I would tell the woman that I prefer that she stays fat.