Quote Originally Posted by fantassy View Post
Thanks for explaining. Another question, if you don't mind, have you ever been able to indulge in your fetish or is this all still in the fantasy stage for you?
I don't have any offline experience of this fetish.

I have had some on-line experience in talking to BOWs but I am completely new to the BDSM world.

Most BOWs have lost interest pretty soon, probably because they have felt humiliated and because they have not been subs, they probably have not tolerated it. I want to add that it's just within the last few days that I have came to understand that my fetish seems to extremely easily humiliate BOWs. Thus, I have decided to explore this from a BDSM perspective. I want to add that I personally am more interested in the other parts, rather than humiliation. Humiliation seems to be a byproduct caused by taboos and personally I wish that those taboos would not exist.

I have had cam experiences with a couple of women. I think neither of them was really subs. Both agreed to show obese body parts and answer many intimate questions about their obesity. One of them was just very open minded and wanted to explore fat admirers because she was newly obese after lifestyle changes. The other one was interested in female obesity herself and thus quite interested to talk about it.

I have also chatted with some other women but there has been no cam sessions involved. Then, of course I have chatted with a large number of BOWs that has very soon lost interested, probably because of the humiliation, as I mentioned earlier.

If you have had a D/S relationship with a BOW, how did the BOW grow as a sub in that relationship?
I don't think that any of the experiences I have had qualify as it has not been outspoken D/s relationships, or even relationships at all. I am not even sure than anything online qualify as a relationship.

However, I would say that those women who has enjoyed the interactions with me over a longer time; I would guess that over time they have become more accepting of their obese bodies and their lifestyles and less ashamed of it. At least it's the impression that I have gotten. After some time, they started to share the information more easily and seemed to be more at ease with it. This is at least the impression that I got.

How it impacted all those who freaked out at an early stage, I don't know and I am not sure that I want to know