Cariad, thank you for the offer but I am fine with it. I hesitate to write too much here as there might be more appropriate places for comments or subjects that are already covered.

In response to including my lover here, that would be up to him, I doubt he has time for it, he has a lot on his plate, as is life in post K New Orleans... but I may suggest it. My primary mission here is to search for inspiration, I do have some of my own, as to how to approach a situation with another switch, I have only been dominated in close relations with men, though I tend to dominate females. And some males, but it is rare that they hold my interest if this is all they want.

As I said, better addressed in other threads, I will try to figure out the search function...by the way I lurked long enough to read a little and as soon as I saw the invite to introduce I went ahead and did. I though it nice because if I want to ask questions of a sexual nature it would be nice not to be a total stranger...and when I see a good thing I tend to embrace it.

I have many questions, I think I am off to something I saw about obscure fetishes...