It seems like a lot of BDSM people have this mind-set that they are perverse...ie abnormal in their sexual needs. So they try desperatly to find where it went wrong. Normality when it comes to sex is just bullshit. Fetishism is commonplace and all sex is at some level about domination. So where is the perversity?

Here's a theory. Trauma in our life causes us to revalue life and helps us to decide what is important for us. Practicing BDSM is ultimatly about feeling more alive, right? To feel more. That to me doesn't sound like it's about broken people.

Besides, what could be defined as trauma is so incredibly subjective. I know several people who had horrific uppbringings who aren't into BDSM at all. I've also heard BDSM slave-girls crying about stuff that in my ears was simply pathetic. And all I want to do is slap them for being such whiney cunts.

Anybody who think they're sick will off-course invariably find something wrong with them. People like that should just stop. It isn't a healthy attitude.

I'm an overactive guy. Extremly. So I went to my doctor and asked if I had ADD. He just asked me if I was passing my exams at university. And I was. His reply to this was just, "Who cares. If it's nothing making you handicapped then why bother finding fault. People are different."