This place is very warm and fertile...I have already seen many helpful ideas and there is a Ruby who is great at posting useful links that are well thought and written. Sweet. Thanks to Ruby. Incedentally, Ruby was the name of the last car I owned...

I was happy before I found ya'll, but now I am 23% happier, very excited, I have learned about CBT (something I have never done to anyone, and as i consider cock to be sacred something I would like to do well and safe) and tips about bondage (almost always the tied and rarely the tyer) and the most slippery bit to master, for me, a Domme attitude! Thank you all so much for your contribution here...even those of you who take the devil's advocate ot are just plain snarky are helpful...at least what I have seen, this is a well cultivated and moderated forum. Thanks for all the work!