I have seen numerous 18-30 year olds disappear from forums, chatrooms, personal sites, and even one on one relationships.

I think you are right Caine. I myself am now married. I never thought I would be. i was what people might call liberated and I had a great time. I now have what I consider a wonderful husband and Master who understands my needs. It can work and I never thought it could,but it needs communication.