I have been a victim of negativity regarding my dating which was mostly vanilla to BDSM people and mostly kinky to vanilla people. *ggls* Everyone I was seeing knew about the others. No commitment was given to anyone or asked of anyone. It was fun for awhile, but scheduling becomes rather difficult. *snickers* Anywho, I have had a couple of friends' boyfriends/husbands not want them hanging out with me because of my "reputation." WTF?!!! *rolling my eyes* I have finally met someone who is interested in more than a casual relationship and requested monogomy, which I am agreeable to. As for the guys, I have heard the expression "collector" used to describe Doms who have several submissives at their disposal.

Let he/she who is without sin cast the first stone! *waits for the cries of slut, whore, tramp, etc. and runs for cover*