Quote Originally Posted by Wolfscout View Post
hrm. if one has the time and also has the compassion , willingness and desire .. I see no problem with it whatever happens. Nor am I one to worry much over the thoughts of from them. It can even be fun to watch their reactions on occassion ... Man is not a monogamous animal. I've said that before. Chuckles.

I think Red's bringing up the expression "collector" as something some can't get to just because their mindset is unable to understand, unable to accept, and reflects a closed mindedness in my opinion.

I think some enter relations with people who are willing to be open to more than one .. and can't understand how someone can give just one more person attention when they find someone who is nice and deserving.

footnote ... I do not consider myself a "collector" grins.
The human being is more than some animal, I believe. What one person likes is not necessarily what another will or can like if they would just be a little more open minded. To achieve a fully open mind I don’t think one has to go for everything extreme and beyond.

I only want one person to love in that way just like I don’t want to study the arts, sit at my desk all day, do hard laborious work all day, go to bed right now or take a dump on my pets face.

That’s simply who I am, it’s not because I’m some cookie cutter creature with different mental hang-ups.

That being said I don’t have much problem with other people doing it.