Hello lozzy and welcome to forums. Members have all sorts of tendancies, but Dom/sub are certainly amongst them. I think as you explore you will find there as many different styles of interaction as there are people, and it is important to appreciate that, provided there is no abuse involved, none are better or more pure than others. Your journey into submission will involve discovering yourself and what is right for you. I wish you every joy. Do pull on the resources here, the threads which are already here, the possibility of starting ones yourself and above the friendship and support of the people.

A some good threads to start with are...

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4529
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=5363
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=6759


cariad