Quote Originally Posted by jenny
Imagine, you come home to find the authorities demanding to know what a bound, gagged, caged man/woman was doing in your burned out apartment.
In the BDSM community, we have a word for someone that leaves their submissive in a bondage situation or confined without a key or easy way to get out:

Dumbass


If a person leaves their submissives in a cage and then leaves them alone with no way to get themselves out, then they have already violated the "safe" rule and have moved from the area of BDSM and into the special area of "inconsiderate assholes that deserve what they get."

Simply put, don't be stupid.