Its crazy because.. I realize that in other cultures the males being Dominant over the females is just life.. like in Asia and Africa... etc....

but... it just seems like its rare to meet someone of another background here who is actually INTO Bdsm... you know?

Where I live and where I came from ... it just depended.... there are a lot of people who have come here from other countries... my new hubby is actually Phillipino.. his mother is from there...

there are those who choose to be a part of a racial stereotype.. I guess you could say... you have those who are in the gangs of their race.... here its a lot of asian and spanish gangs ... and the italian and russian mafia.... (where i live.. not in the USA in general)

I have met here.... people who are indian... black... spanish who are in the lifestyle.. it just doesn't seem as common. My ex Dom was actually Indian ( forgive me if that is not the correct term... I know sometimes there is a preference depending on where exactly you are from ) and he was great... so... -shrug- doesn't matter to me what or who you are when it comes to all this.. its just rare to find someone who is not a white male...