Er....anywaaayy..getting back on topic...

missy, i would definately suggest investing in a butt plug, they really shouldn't cost all that much (mine certainly didn't) and it is probably worth it in order to remove risk (and a great deal of potential embarrassment!)...any reduced risk can only be a good thing. Even if you have to save up for a short while, it would be worth it to be able to have peace of mind during your play.

sl