Thanks to all for your warm greetings. For several years I have been working at expanding my husbands interest. A few years ago he agreed to start vacationing at nude or clothing optional resorts. It added greatly to our sex life as you can imagine. I am still trying to encourage him into more exotic play, but I guess I am still very embarassed about my fantasies. Sometimes they scare me. Looking forward to more discussions with everyone as time permits.