Thank you for this thread. Now I have a name for the part that scares me the most, After Care. The two times I came to orgasm in bondage it scared the sh-- out of me! The adrenaline rush sent me into a hysterical, shaking, panic. I shook and cried for a good 10 minutes. The feelings were some of the most intense in my life, but it scared me silly. I guess that is why I have not tried harder to do more in real life.