kisskinky - have a great time, you'll have some interesting conversations! And let us know how it went...

orchid - yep, the look. Now I know what it is and the effect it can have (is it just me or is it getting warm in here - fanning self) I hope to see it in my husband's eyes soon (he is getting a little glint of it )

dorkalicious - (I love your name by the way) I don't know where the name came from, but what little I know from reading and the internet is that it is just a gathering. Think Rotary Club or Jaycees or something like that, but instead of organizing charity luncheons and going on bus trips, they are all talking about BDSM. If you are interested in play parties, you will begin to get invited as you get to know people.

I can't recommend strongly enough - if you get the chance, go.