ok. well I work for a sex party planning company here in the UK (when I get the chance ) and have done for 10 years.
there are so many different vibrators and dildos out there.
some that have one purpose and others that are multi funtional.
external and internal, clitoral stimulators, vibrators for him and her together.
There are ones that rotate and pulsate. lol the list is endless.
If this is your 1st vibrator then I would go for a soft jelly one or a bullet to place on the clit (and interally). is just a matter of trying and testing to find out which is suitable for you. you never know you might end up with a wicked toy collection and then have problems choosing which one to use !!!! LMAO
good luck with your quest and have fun
ceegee